So my appt with the Pain Management Dr went about as well as I expected. Frustrating & leaving in tears as usual. My family doc is a resident & will be leaving this summer {which I am super bummed about} so he wanted this Dr to take over my pain meds. His response to that? Oh I don’t do that here, there will be a new resident that takes over his cases. WTF? You are PAIN MANAGEMENT HELLO!!!! AND the last time I saw my fam doc I REALLY REALLY REALLY X's 10 needed a med adjustment and he wanted the PAIN DR to adjust/change it since HE IS THE EXPERT IN THAT FIELD! My family doc has been trying for 2yrs to get my meds adjusted so I can have a little more of an active life. I mean I CANT leave my house for more than 2hrs without becoming absolutely Miserable! Oh just pop another pill...IF it is time to sure BUT NOOOOOO that doesn’t work...I HAVE to lay down! And IF I just took a pill before I left I have another 2-3hrs Before I can take another. On top of that my Neuro only wanted me to do ONE more injection but the Pain Dr wants to do 3. Fine whatever do what ya wanna do BUT don’t leave me suffering even longer. I requested an adjustment in meds way back in Feb and it hasn’t happened yet and its getting to the point where my body has gotten so used to my dosage it doesn’t work as well any more. So what does that mean for me? It means that at times my pain gets so bad that I get sick to my stomach. Im on a med called Zofran its a nausea med that is prescribed to cancer patients undergoing chemo among other disorders. Its NOT working.
Summer is right around the corner and the kids will be out of school soon. Everyone is talking about going to the park, camping, the zoo, the beach, boat rides, ect and all I can think is that must be nice. If things continue the way they are now I will be spending 95% of my time on my couch atop my mountain of pillows unable to go out to the pond to watch the kids swim for more than an hour, a hour and half if they are lucky. After that wrestling season will start again and I DONT want to be in the bathroom puking my guts out in between matches.
What I would give to be my old self again and that isn’t even pain free just a tolerable live a “normal” life”pain. WORK. Now that would be wonderful. Unfortunately, that seems to be out of reach anytime in the near future and of course that is the ONE thing I want more than ANYTHING. Yes, I know, I sound pessimistic. I DONT know if the injections WILL work. Yes, there is the possibility that they WILL. But I have gotten my hopes up before. The first round of injections, the physical therapy, the surgery. Each time I have gotten excited that THIS will work, gotten my hopes up and been disappointed each and every time. Nothing seems to work. The pain management doctor wants to call it an ANGRY nerve when my Nuero and the Dr that did the EMG said that I have Permanent Nerve DAMAGE!
The story doesn’t end there though. I wish it did. Back in August 2010 I had my 4th and last injection (until now) on my lower back. At the pre-op appt I had told him about my neck and how my arm had really been bothering me. He told me we would worry about that later. Later never came because at my post-op 2wks later I brought it up again and AGAIN I got the same response! We will worry about that later. Now it is almost 2yrs later and LATER has not yet come for him to worry about it. Granted my MAJOR problem IS my lower back and my left leg BUT my arm has gradually gotten worse and I am REALLY beginning to worry about it getting as bad as my leg. My Neuro wanted a round of injections done for my neck...a full set of 3. But AGAIN we will worry about that LATER. I had another MRI done of my neck on Monday and he wouldn’t even give me the results. I'm so fed up with this Dr and cant really find another because it is best to have all my Dr's at UTMC.
I go see my family doc next Friday and I cant WAIT to tell him about how much I hate going to see this
doctor. Once again I am playing the waiting game. I really thought I was on the path to get the Spinal Stimulator Implant done that could very well change my life for the better and again I have to wait even LONGER! I guess that is the story of my life. Waiting and waiting and waiting. Lets try this first and then do that. Oh no lets try THIS now and then do that. Well I’m sorry but I think we should try this too. All the while nothing works and I am really not any better than I was after my first round of injections back I May 2010. They didn’t decrease my pain but they did make me walk again. That’s all the progress I have made in 2yrs. Don’t get me wrong being able to walk again was a HUGE relief. But at the same time my pain is just as much of a burden.
I think they keep forgetting I am ONLY 30 and have been dealing with this since I was 28. I have 2 young kids at home and my son cant even remember what its like to have a mom free of pain that can do all the things the other moms do. While my daughter can remember and doesn’t let me forget she does. She desperately wants her mom back and keeps waiting for it to happen.
Its almost like I wish all my doctors would just come out and say “The likelihood of you EVER getting any better than you are now is highly unlikely,” and just give me the amount of meds that CAN make me feel “normal” again. If they would just quit pussyfooting around me not getting better I would be more willing to be on an amount of medication that would give me the ability to do more, live more. Not that I really have had the option to be on that amount of medication because I haven’t. They are all so unwilling to believe that despite their best efforts they will not CURE ME, they will NOT get me any better than I am NOW. So just get it done and over give me the Implant and the Morphine pump and let me get on with my life KNOWING that this is the way it will be for the rest of my life.